— Want to wait till I come back?
— No, thanks.
codenameeternity reblogged your post and added:I can completely understand they whole I don’t…
Ah, I can imagine James Marsters being like that but it’s great to have it confirmed! My friend met him after one of his gigs and apparently he was the biggest sweetheart ever.
You’re right about fandom, I wish it was always just full of love and happy. The infighting is so weird when you think that people are just complaining about how someone else loves the thing that they love. Hm.
I may or may not have made a complete arse of myself in front of him at the end of a gig but the extremely pissed girl next to me missed he was trying to get her attention not mine, so her fault XD (I kissed his car… I am not ashamed of this moment of madness)
Yep. What else does that remind me of? Oh yeah, people who fight about the right way to worship the same god. Huh… Guess we really are mad then XD
I can completely understand they whole I don’t have to fit in thing in fandoms and I’m a pretty quiet member in all mine to be honest, but your opinion is just as good as those that have been in it since forever. Fandoms are for everyone because that’s their joy, they appeal to so many different people for so many reasons. I’ve met James Marsters a few times now and he’s great (and hot XD) and you can see Spike characteristics when he walks and talks, so it’s a little bit of meeting Spike too.Do not let tell you your opinion on a fandom is not valid. (And hell yes to all of that about Spike XD). If they offer hate, you do not have to respond. It is their decision to do that, you do not have to make it your problem or hurt.
Thank you so much for this <3 I felt like maybe I didn’t deserve to be in certain fandoms because I got it wrong somehow. I know that’s ridiculous..! But you’ve turned a light on in my head saying that I don’t have to make their hate my problem or be hurt by it, you’re completely correct.
& it’s so good to find someone else who feels the same way I do about Spike, it kills me that I’ll never get to hang out with him haha!